12 mars 2016

Restoring Emotional Connections Through Hawaiian Healing

By Helen Jackson


Every person in this world has a connection with the people who are very close to them, like their friends, family or lover. You are attached to them because you have built an emotional bond with them. This emotional connection is a bundle of idea that both of you have shared which results to a bond between the two of you.

It is not only lovers who can form a bond, you can have it also with your family, relatives or friends, but know that this connection may impair. The determining cause of the destruction of this connection can be numerous. But, Hawaiian healing on Maui can revive that bond that you have had with the other person.

As the name goes, this kind of healing process originated in Hawaii. It is a practice which involves forgiveness and reconciliation. A lot of articles and information talks about this kind of process, and to help you more about it, here are some ways on how to restore your connections with the people you love.

Think twice and act wise. If the person you were once close with did something wrong on you, do not react immediately. Remember to keep your emotions intact. If you react immediately, it would result to a war of words which would create a gap between the two of you. What you must do is just stay calm and get on your feet, and as much as possible, try to disregard that actions of him.

Find the inner beauty. Do not dwell on the wrongdoing that the person has don unto you. Since you were once close with this person whom you had a rift with, you should know that he has a kind attitude somehow. Look unto those things and just continue thinking about it, and relive those happy moments that you had with him.

Stop the blame. Just because you got hurt with what that person did, you are now at the losing end. Stop thinking that you are he injured party in the situation because if you constantly think that way, it would only make you feel disappointed and angry. The best that you can do is think again, and figure out what cause him to do such act.

Say a prayer. You can never go wrong with praying. This is actually the most essential component in this process. Do not ever think of getting back at him, instead, pray that both of you will reconcile soon and repent. Acknowledge the imperfections of one another and say sorry.

Say I love you and do it. Loving someone can be hard for you if cannot even love yourself. You must first love and embrace your entire being, your imperfections and all. Once you are able to do this, it would not be difficult for you to do it unto someone else.

Healing yourself is one of the most effective way to restore the good relationship you had with those people you have had a conflict with. This process would also give you a peace of mind and would make you move forward and go on with your daily life. This is a must try practice and you would be surprise about how it would change your attitude and ideas in life.




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